i understand how you feel, i have been going through the same emotions myself. i have had 2 pregnancies and both have ended in the 1st trimester. it's horrible to think of what i might have done, or why i had to be punished by losing my babies.
in the beginning i had a lot of emotional support. but as time went by, i felt like people just though it was time for me to be "over it." that is why i created this community. i needed a place to go and get rid of thoughts and feelings, to talk to other women who were going through the same thing. to feel support.
i'm sorry for your loss, i hope you find the comfort and support you need. *hugs*